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Spiritual Healer & Life Coach in Los Angeles
You Know Something Needs to Change.
You May Not Know What's Keeping It in Place.
You may feel stuck, keep finding yourself in the same situations, or feel like something in your life just isn't flowing the way you want it to.
I help women understand what may be connected to what they're experiencing so they can see what they may have been missing, trust themselves more deeply, and move forward differently.
Sound Familiar?
Women Usually Book a Session When Something Isn't Making Sense Anymore
Maybe the same relationship pattern keeps repeating. You're giving too much, carrying too much, or finding yourself with the same kind of partner.
Maybe it's showing up somewhere else. Your money doesn't seem to move forward. You feel stuck in your work or direction. You're constantly second-guessing yourself. Your energy feels heavy or drained. Or you simply know something feels off, but you can't figure out why.
You may already have an idea of what's causing it. Or you may have no idea at all.
You don't have to figure that out before you book a session.
My Approach
How I Work
We start with what's happening in your life now and work from there.
Depending on what you're experiencing, our work may explore your unconscious beliefs, emotional patterns, identity, language and communication, relationships, family and ancestral patterns, and spiritual or energetic patterns.
The purpose is to understand how those pieces may be connected to what you're experiencing today, recognize what you may not have been able to see on your own, and help you decide what you want to do differently moving forward.
What's happening now
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What keeps showing up
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What may be connected to it
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What needs to change
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How you move forward
Spiritual & Energetic Work
What If You Think It's Spiritual?
I started doing spiritual and energetic work at 16 inside a botanica in Los Angeles. Many of the people I worked with believed they were dealing with curses, envy, evil eye, karmic situations, or other spiritual problems.
Over time, I noticed that what someone believed was happening and what came up during the work could be different.
Sometimes the energetic work brought attention to an emotional pattern, a family dynamic, an old belief, or something else the person hadn't connected to what they were experiencing.
That experience shaped the way I work today.
If you feel blocked, energetically heavy, affected by someone else's energy or everyone around you, or believe there may be a spiritual reason for what's happening in your life, that can be where we begin.
We may explore spiritual and energetic areas such as chakras, energetic cords, inner child wounds, ancestral patterns or karma, and past-life patterns, alongside what is happening in your life today.
You don't need to know whether it's emotional, spiritual, energetic, ancestral, or something else before you book.
17+ Years
Spiritual & Energetic Practice
M.S. Psychology
Mount Saint Mary's University, Los Angeles
B.A. Communication Studies
California State University, Long Beach
Conflict Resolution
Training in communication and conflict
Client Experiences
What Clients Have Shared
Pattern Recognition
"I genuinely learned so much from our sessions and still find myself using a lot of what we worked on."
"I just wanted to reach out and tell you that I really appreciate you and the impact you had on me. ❤️"
Private Client
Internal Shift
"Since last night I felt so much better. Slept so well. Energy wise more lighter like if a weight was taken off of me."
"This morning I logged into my classes was listening to the lecture and grasping things with no problem. 😌 I want to express my gratitude for this wonderful help you have provided me."
Private Client
Real-Life Change
"The way that I felt then to now is completely different."
"The moments I was crying and doubting myself. I never felt that before and when I was able to point out what exactly it was it blew my mind."
Private Client
What Changes
What This Work Helps You Build
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Inner Safety
Feel more grounded within yourself so difficult emotions don't automatically determine what happens next.
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Self-Trust
Trust what you feel, communicate what you need, and make decisions without constantly questioning yourself afterward.
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Grounded Clarity
See what's happening more clearly so fear, old beliefs, or other people's emotions don't make your decisions for you.
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A Different Response
Recognize when an old pattern is showing up and create space to respond from who you are now.
Get Started
Ways to Work Together
There's more than one way to begin, depending on what you want support with and how deeply you want to explore it.
Individualized Support
Private Sessions
For individualized support around something happening in your life now, whether you're feeling stuck, repeating a pattern, navigating a relationship or decision, or trying to understand something you haven't been able to make sense of on your own.
Personalized Insight
Readings & Reports
For personalized insight through astrology and focused readings, including relationships, compatibility, life purpose, and the year ahead.
On Your Own
Self-Guided Resources
For exploring emotional patterns, self-trust, inner safety, and personal growth on your own through workbooks, guides, and programs.
Self-Guided Workbook
Prefer to Begin on Your Own?
The Inner Safety Method™ · $11
A self-guided workbook designed to help you understand your emotional reactions, recognize the beliefs connected to them, rebuild self-trust, and practice responding differently when old patterns show up.
Explore The Inner Safety Method™
Begin Here
You Don't Have to Have It All Figured Out Before You Begin.
You may know exactly what keeps repeating, or you may only know that something in your life needs to change.
We start with what's happening in your life now and work from there.
From the Blog
The Journal
Insights on emotional patterns, identity, self-trust, relationships, spiritual growth, energy, and ancestral healing to help you understand what may be happening beneath the surface.
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